04-07-2012, 01:50 PM
21 Golden Rules for Indian Women
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1. The most important person in your life
is YOU. Not your kids, not your hubby, not
your parents. You will have to take care of
yourself first before taking care of others
you love. I learnt this after I had my baby.
I had no help and I was always taking
care of the baby when she was awake
and cooking and cleaning when she was
asleep and was miserable as I had no,life
to live. Slowly I started to cut myself some
slack. Started doing things I like like reading,
browsing, music instead of cleaning
or cooking an elaborate dinner when my
daughter was sleeping. I relaxed myself
and when my daughter was up I was able
to enjoy my time with her. Ofcourse the
house was a mess but who cares !
2. Never depend on anyone else to be
happy. Never depend on anyone else to
make you happy. Being happy is like a
job. You have to do it. It is not optional.
3. Contrary to a lot of ideas you may have
got from movies and novels accept the
fact that you and your husband are really
2 individuals. Nothing bad about that. If
you can accept that, then most of your
problems will be solved by themselves.
4. He can have things that he likes, and
you may not like them. Instead of forcing
yourself do those things with him and
ending up bitter, just happily let him do
what he wants to and you do things you
like.
5. Do not always expect him to do things
to make you happy. You do things to
make yourself happy. When you are
happy you automatically will do things
that will make him happy.