02-06-2012, 01:21 PM
Alcohol and Drug Abuse
Many parents are surprised to learn that attitudes about drinking start at home and play a large part in children's later attitudes about drugs.
Sometimes a child gets his first taste of alcohol from well-intentioned parents who mistakenly believe that the "awful" and unfamiliar taste will discourage their children from wanting alcohol. Unfortunately, that first taste can make the child feel warm and rather good.
If children see their parents drinking to unwind after a hard day, after an argument, or as an essential part of a social get-together, those early impressions about alcohol may be reinforced.
For teenagers, the reasons are more complex than just a warm feeling. Adolescents want desperately to be accepted by their friends and are likely to imitate the behavior of their peers, including drinking and taking drugs, to gain acceptance.
Kids with low self-esteem are especially susceptible. They often use alcohol and drugs to feel more comfortable around others. They can alleviate shyness and relieve nervousness.